Hello all, I decided to look back at my life and how I have made decisions in my life. I realized that many of the decision I have made have been defensive or made out of fear. For example my former career, although I moved up swiftly through the ranks was chosen initially because I knew I could do it and I needed money fast. Often, my short term decisions were made out of fear and defensively, ultimately turning into decisions I was unhappy about long term. Normally at this time I am solely focused on an external goal like career advancement, a raise, or diet etc, however this year my main focus is on an internal goal. I want to go on the offense this year and make decisions out of love. Love is the only reason I had the courage to chase my dreams. Love is the reason why I have the courage to put myself out their even if I may be ridiculed. And Love will be the reason why I will look back at my life and be satisfied. So I guess my goal is to Love the hell out of this year. 1/02/
Hello All, The new year is almost upon us. Many of us have goals. Our problem is we often want our cake and to eat it also. Unfortunately, we can't have it both ways, we must sacrifice our old versions to become a different version. I, like many others have continued to struggle with this. I want to do and accomplish some amazing things in my life but I want a safety net. This results in major short-comings, confusion, and dissapointment because it means I haven't fully commited to my goals. My major goal this coming new year is to embrace the uncomfortable, painful, and messy process of change so that I can become my greatest version. 12/26/17 Ramon